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Day 43 of OU studies.

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Edited by Casper Smith, Friday, 1 Jan 2021, 18:52
For me, Saturday and Sunday are days are days when  I reflect on my life, weigh up the pros and cons of  and settle in the comfort of our home with my Beautiful Mother, who to me, is a formidable character and has helped shaped the way I view woman as a whole and the way I view men as a whole. If I'm totally honest I like the conclusions that I have come too. Being a boy then a man with a largely male dominated influence it has been easy for me to it has easy for me to be biased about the sex's and gender's.
Reflecting on my experiences growing up I have felt that bias shift, which leads a person like me to study and analyse this new phenomenon. I see one contrasting difference in the female specie compared to the male specie and that is that is biological, psychological and genealogical way in which they are structured, which to me, shows a whole different mindset, belief system and outlook on life and is probably why we hear so many men say 'I cant understand woman' 'you can never work a woman out' and so on.
Now whether a woman chooses to or not this is not really my point, the fact that their entire being is structured for the purpose of giving life as opposed to a male which isn't tells me this will impact the Female to point where their mindset, perceptions and belief system about the nature and nurture of life is incomprehensible to Males in general. How is it possible for a Male to have empathy for a Female? Its like humans having empathy for an ant, how could we even start to believe that we know what it is like to have the female form or ant form. Now when you are a person like me this just leads to further investigation. For the majority of woman that are in prison for murder, statistics show that at woman will not kill unless their is a male influence, whether the Female was a victim of domestic abuse, sexual abuse as a child, coercive abuse or some kind of social pressure from males in some sense. I am not suggesting that all the Females that are subjected to Male abuse of coercion will murder and please believe me when I say this is not a witch hunt for Males, just an observation and an opinion that is totally arguable, or even debatable as I do not seek to be right. When it comes to crime in general women are more often than not less likely to commit crime, less likely to commit violent crime, more likely to serve shorter sentences and really have much less involvement in crime,(https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/759770/women-criminal-justice-system-2017..pdf ) This fact along with observing my Mother, my Fathers murder and my brothers murder conviction and my general direct, life long, hands on involvement in the  practical study in to murder, crime, psychology and criminology got me thinking, so I started to look in to why there is a contrasted difference between Female and Male. Males will join the army to be on the front line, three people were convicted of my fathers murder, two of them were males and one was a female, although it was only the males who carried out the murder, the Female was not present. My brother who is Male murdered. As I see it as humans, we all have to capability to murder, yet statistically speaking a Male will choose to while a Female chooses not to. Why?


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