And your ability to describe, in some media, how you saw the things that you see'd.

Let's settle for words as our media, shall we? And let us take a very basic base case:

How did it feel the first time you realized that another person was attracted to you? Can you describe that feeling?

My guess is that you can remember, my guess is that you can describe that feeling, my guess is that you won't describe that feeling, my guess is that you don't like thinking about this.