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The Value of Validation

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Sunday, 15 Sept 2024, 14:01


Soft digital touch,
Gentle words from a cyber sea—
AI's kind response.




Thanks to https://unsplash.com/@santesson89 for the fascinating image

Maybe it’s because I am British, but I hold the door open for a lady, I get up when someone older than me is seatless, I always say thanks and please and apologise; even when I am corresponding with AI. I did some research today and after thanking ChatGPT, I got the following reply,

“You’re welcome, Jim! I’m glad I could help. If you have any more questions or need further assistance, feel free to reach out. Good luck with your book!”

I felt so uplifted with the courteous reply. My wife laughed. Yes, I know I am writing to a cyber machine, but I still felt uplifted. So, I pursued this further and asked,

“It is always nice to thank Chat GPT and get a kind response despite it being artificial intelligence. Does that help the creators? Also, I get a lift from the kind response despite it being AI, what is the psychology on my part when I feel like that?”

 “It's great that you feel uplifted by kind interactions, even with AI. Here’s a bit of insight into both your questions”

 Does Thanking ChatGPT Help the Creators?

While direct thanks don't impact the AI itself, positive interactions and feedback are valuable for the creators and developers. They help:

 

Improve Systems: Feedback on how helpful or pleasant interactions are can guide developers in making enhancements.

Understand User Experience: Knowing that users appreciate the kindness or effectiveness of responses can shape how future versions are developed.

 

Psychology of Feeling Uplifted by AI Responses

 

Feeling uplifted by positive interactions with AI can be linked to a few psychological factors:

 

Humanizing Technology: When AI responds kindly, it can mimic human social interactions, which often evoke positive emotions. Our brains are wired to respond to social cues, even if they come from non-human sources.

Social Validation: Receiving positive feedback or validation, even from an AI, can boost self-esteem and mood. It’s similar to how positive interactions with people can make us feel good.

Emotional Impact: Engaging with AI in a supportive, friendly manner can trigger feelings of warmth and comfort. This is especially true if you’re accustomed to having supportive conversations or if the interaction meets a social or emotional need.

Overall, the way AI interacts with you can still impact your mood and feelings positively, even though the responses come from a machine.

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There's a lesson in all of this; the human need for validation 

In a fleeting glance,
a smile that speaks of comfort—
hearts touch in silence.






























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