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“Were not our hearts burning within us as He spoke with us on the road 

and opened the Scriptures to us?” — Luke 24: 32, BSB.

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Dilsoz: The Warmth of a Heart That Heals

Since the days of my youth, I've been drawn to language and its power to shape our experiences. Certain words resonate deeply, capturing emotions or ideals we often struggle to express. Dilsoz, a word from Tajikistan, is one of those treasures. It describes a person with a heart warming presence, someone who instinctively uplifts others and leaves them feeling understood and comforted. I’ve met only a handful of people like this in my life, and each left an indelible mark. They’ve shown me a vision of the person I wish to be—a presence that heals simply by being there.

Being Dilsoz is more than mere kindness. It’s a deep, intuitive empathy, a gift for seeing unspoken needs and responding with genuine care. True people with the quality  don’t necessarily use grand gestures; often, they comfort with a simple word, a look, or a quiet presence that offers solace. When I think of this quality, I recall friendships that have carried me through challenging times—friends who had an almost instinctual ability to comfort. They became models for how I hope to engage with others, radiating the kind of warmth that quietly heals.

I’ve tried to nurture this quality in myself, though I’ve realized that empathy isn’t a skill that can be practiced through rigid techniques. It’s an art of knowing when to step forward and when to hold back. Sometimes, it’s about simply sharing in silence or sensing when words are unnecessary. True comfort comes from an understanding beyond platitudes, from an open heart that speaks when words can’t.

The memories of those rare, compassionate people continue to shape me. They knew when to sit in silence, when to ask the right questions, and when to share words that untangled the knots within. There’s a subtle difference between showing up and showing up in a way that opens the heart and witnessing it first-hand has been a gift.

Living up to the ideal of this rich concept  isn’t about fixing others’ problems or wearing a constant smile. It’s about showing up with understanding and an unguarded heart, being willing to share a bit of someone else’s burden. The essence of Dilsoz lies in offering comfort without conditions, in carrying warmth that touches others’ lives. I’m grateful to have known it—and I hope, in some way, to share it.