OU blog

Personal Blogs

Jim McCrory

Writer's Block and The Timid Mare

Visible to anyone in the world
Edited by Jim McCrory, Saturday 1 August 2026 at 11:20

sketch%20%281%29.png

Image by Sarah Olive on Unsplash

Writer's Block and The Timid Mare

 

The morning found me walking alone toward the beach, accompanied only by the familiar silence of a writer's block. Sometimes the words refuse to come, and all that remains is to keep walking, trusting that nature may speak where language cannot.

A little farther along the path, a young woman sat astride a beautiful buckskin mare—or so I believe she was. The horse had never been this way before. She hesitated, uncertain of what lay ahead, pausing as though every instinct urged her to turn around and retreat to what was familiar. Confidence, I reflected, is not the birthright of either horses or people. It is something gently earned, one small step at a time.

I asked if I might stroke the horse. Up close, I admired the richness of her colouring and the soft abundance of her thick fetlocks. She stood quietly as I ran my hand over her neck, and something seemed to change in that simple exchange. Whether she sensed there was nothing to fear, or whether she merely borrowed a little confidence from the moment, I cannot say.

From then on, she followed me as I continued toward the shore. Together we reached the sand, and where she had once hesitated, she now walked forward willingly. The beach, which moments before had seemed an unknown frontier, became simply another place to explore.

It felt like a small miracle, one of those unplanned encounters that asks nothing of us except our presence. For me, it was a special moment. For the mare, perhaps it was the discovery that courage often begins with trust. And for her patient rider, it may have been a quiet reminder that building confidence bit by bit  is sometimes the greatest teacher of all.

Now I will go and develope this story for my book that should be ready soon.

P.S. I chose sarah's image because the horse 

 displays confidence.

Permalink Add your comment
Share post
Jim McCrory

My Father Never Lies

Visible to anyone in the world

 



"Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching." — C.S. Lewis 



Image generated with the assistance of Microsoft Word


A friend's daughter some time ago embarked on a school assignment that left a lasting impression on me. She titled it, "My Father Never Lies." This phrase resonates deeply, serving as a poignant reminder of the legacy of integrity and credibility one can leave behind—a true testament to one’s character.

The Swedish word Trovärdighet captures this essence beautifully. It’s a term that signifies an internal consistency between one’s actions and character, a steadfastness that others can rely upon without doubt. This concept of reliability and trustworthiness is crucial in understanding what it means to be human.

Reflecting on this, I recall rekindling a friendship with someone I went to school with. We occasionally walk across to the Island of Bute, where we both spent our childhood summers. Over these walks, it’s fascinating to observe how we have evolved over the decades. One trait that makes him stand out is his trustworthiness. Confiding in him comes with an assurance that my words remain safe, a quality that epitomizes Trovärdighet.

In the last 24 hours, about 3,000 visitors logged onto my blog, and it comforts me to think that many of us share this path. In a world often driven by deceit for personal gain, finding solace in the company of those we can trust is a rare comfort. It reassures us, provides peace, and sets a standard for how relationships should be.

This brings us to a critical question—can our children, partners, or friends confidently say that we are people who never lie? Do they see us as embodiments of Trovärdighet? Whether it’s in the context of family, friendships, or even professional relationships, the quality of being trustworthy is fundamental.

The Biblical proverb, "The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy" (Proverbs 12:22), encapsulates the divine appreciation for integrity. It is a principle that guides us, urging us to live lives that others can rely on, just as they would rely on a compass for direction.

In our quest to leave a meaningful legacy, let us strive to be remembered for our truthfulness and reliability—qualities that not only define us but also enrich the lives of those around us.


Note: 

In Swedish culture, as in many others, the importance of trust and credibility can be seen in social norms, business practices, and even in the legal system. Sweden is often noted for its high levels of trust in government and institutions, which is a testament to the cultural value placed on "trovärdighet."

In literature, credibility plays a crucial role in storytelling. A narrator's credibility, for instance, can significantly affect the interpretation of a story. Swedish literature, like that of many cultures, often explores themes of trust and deceit, and the credibility of characters can be a central theme.

 


Permalink Add your comment
Share post

This blog might contain posts that are only visible to logged-in users, or where only logged-in users can comment. If you have an account on the system, please log in for full access.

Total visits to this blog: 2475303