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Parents, Who Would Have Them?

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Friday, 25 Apr 2025, 12:28


“The pain of youth becomes the story of age.”
Victor HugoLes Misérables 


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It’s a pleasant spring morning in Scotland. I’m giving my legs a shuffle and feeling my heart pumping life force around my body. It’s the Clyde Walkway, and I figure I’ll do a ninety-minute walk before picking up a new guitar in Glasgow.

Apparently, the man walking on my left comes from the same town I grew up in until I was fourteen. He goes on to tell me the most bizarre story.

     “I’m at school one morning.” (Isn’t it strange, how we speak of the past in the present?)

     “What school?” I ask.

     “St Gerard’s, in Govan,” he replies, then continues. “After school that day, I go to the Plaza to see The War Wagon.”

     “Oh, I saw that! Wasn’t the movie shown with it The Perils of Pauline? Goodness, I had a teenage crush on Betty Hutton. My pal Dec and I went to see it three times in one week,” I say.

     “So, after the movies, I go home—and guess what?” he says.

     “What?”

     “No one’s in. They did a runner. Moved.”

     “Get away.”

     “Sure. I knock on the neighbour’s door, and they tell me the removal lorry came and took everything away that afternoon.”

     “So, what did you do?”

     “I call my grannie, and she tells me they’ve moved from Govan to Pollok.”

     “What happened next?”

     “I have no money, so I walk it—from Govan to Pollok. And when I got home, it was just like another day. My mother said, ‘How was school today?’”

While we walked, a silence descended as I tried to take all this in. I think kids were tougher back in the day. But that depends on the time, place and guardians. "The past was a different country, they did things differently there" the author wrote.

But then I asked my fellow walker, “So what was the story? Why didn’t you know you were moving?”

     “I must have just forgot they told me we’d be moving that day.”

     "Sure, give them the benefit of the doubt; it's the right thing to do."

 

 

 

 


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Good Evening Kazakhstan! I Love Your Word Tattimbet

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A friend asked me, “Who is your favourite character in a book, Jim?

     “Oh dear, that’s like choosing which child is your favourite. But let me see, there is Bruno in Striped Pyjamas, and Aslan in The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe, There is  Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz and there is Joe in Great Expectations…”

     “Your favourite, Jim?”

     “Okay, Prince Myshkin.”

     “Prince who?”

     “Prince Myshkin. Dostoevsky’s The Idiot.”

     “Why him?”

     “He was too good for this world.”

*****

All my life I’ve been captivated by stories that highlight kind characters. Perhaps because they have qualities that I aspire to but have failed many times. This is why I like this word Tattimbet in the language of Kazakhstan. It embodies not just being a nice human but being a source of comfort to others. I grasp onto the word because we have no equivalent word in English that has that depth. Go back and consider the books I mentioned; all the protagonists embodied this quality. We could add many more: Beth in Little Women. Atticus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird, Samwise Gamgee in The Lord of the Rings, Miss Honey in Matilda, Jean Valjean from Les Misérables, Ma Joad in The Grapes of Wrath and who couldn’t forget Ann Shirley in Anne of Green Gables.

Don’t you think it strange that if we are in a universe that is aimless, we are drawn to kindness? Kindness, love and self-sacrifice have no place in an evolutionary world, but contrary to majority opinion, The ark of the universe bends towards goodness.

So, tell me your books that capture the spirit of Tattimbe?


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