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Why are you so upset inside?

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Sunday 1 March 2026 at 10:53

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Young people, life can be like The Arena in  The Hunger Games. Everything working against your success in life. Despite your best efforts you take three steps backwards for every step forward.

Psalm 42:5 begins with a question that feels painfully current:

“Why, I ask myself, are you so depressed?  Why are you so upset inside?”
Is that how you feel?

Let me say something to you directly.

Many of you are carrying more than people realize. You are growing up in a time of constant comparison, endless noise, and pressure from every side. Anxiety and depression among young people have risen sharply over the past decade. Researchers continue to report increasing loneliness, even in a generation that is more digitally connected than any before it. You are told to succeed early, to define yourself quickly, and to have everything figured out in a world that itself feels unstable.

That is not easy terrain to cross.

So, when the Psalm asks, “Why are you downcast?” it isn’t scolding. It’s honest. It gives you permission to admit that something inside feels heavy. The writer of Psalm 42 doesn’t pretend he’s fine. He talks to his own soul. He names the disturbance.

That’s the first step so many avoid.

But the Psalm does not stop at describing the problem. It moves to the remedy: “Put your hope in God.”

Some of you may roll your eyes at that. You might think that sounds like religious talk, disconnected from real life. But what the Psalm describes is not institutional religion. It isn’t about performance or public image. It’s about something intensely personal. It’s about you speaking privately with God. It’s inviting Him into your confusion, your questions, your disappointments, your fears about the future.

It is not nonsense to turn to the One who made you.

The Psalmist doesn’t claim instant emotional relief. He makes a decision. He anchors himself. He reminds himself that this low place will not have the final word. Hope is chosen before it is felt.

Some of you will take hold of that. Others may dismiss it. But I would urge you not to brush it aside too quickly. When everything else feels unstable, turning toward God is not escapism. It is grounding your soul in Someone steady.

So, I invite you, not to adopt a label, not to perform a ritual, but to have a real, private conversation with God. Speak honestly. Don’t sanitize your words. Bring the whole of your heart.

And then read Psalm 42 slowly. See how one honest question becomes a path back to hope.

 

Why, I ask myself, are you so depressed?
    Why are you so upset inside?
Hope in God!
    Because I will again give him thanks,
        my saving presence and my God.

Psalm 42:5

 

Note: verses quoted are from the Common English Bible (CEB) Copyright © 2011 by Common English Bible

 

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