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Once I Read a Book and Never Stopped

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Thursday, 27 Mar 2025, 12:10


The more things that come into your head, the more room there is for others.” 



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I must have been eight when the janitor at St Anthony's in Govan brought in a big box of brand new books. The teacher handed us all a copy and I sat and got lost in the pages of mine. Many of the pupils got bored with theirs and asked for a change. "Look at McCrory" the teacher said, "He is enjoying his." The truth is, it was boring, but I got on with it and persevered. And if the truth were told, it was the only compliment I ever got from a teacher.

 In Selma Lagerlöf's The Wonderful Adventures of Nils, a profound yet straightforward insight is introduced: “The more things that come into your head, the more room there is for others.” This notion implies that the mind, unlike any physical space, expands with its contents. It grows ever vaster with each new thought, idea, or dream. Reflecting on this concept, I recognize its resonance in my experiences, especially in my interactions with others—both enriching encounters with individuals who read and think deeply.

My journey through life has often meandered along paths lined with books, through landscapes rich with paragraphs and ripe with rhetoric. Along these paths, I have met kindred spirits—people whose minds, like mine, seem to thrive on the endless nourishment of words and ideas. There is a palpable depth in conversations with these individuals, a shared understanding that reaches beyond the spoken word, facilitated by our mutual expeditions through literature.

This literary journey does more than just broaden our knowledge; it enhances our capacity for empathy. Like the trees I observe from my window in winter—prepared and eager for the abundance of spring—our minds, fertilized by myriad narratives and perspectives, grow branches and forge connections. Each book, each story, adds a layer of understanding, enabling us to relate more profoundly to others' feelings and experiences.

Moreover, empathy—a quality deeply tied to our ability to understand and share the feelings of another—seems enhanced by reading. Literature serves as a rehearsal space for empathy, inviting us into the minds and lives of others, promoting understanding across boundaries of time, culture, and circumstance. Without this engagement, my capacity to empathize would be stunted.

Reflecting on Lagerlof's wisdom, the more we fill our minds with thoughts, ideas, and emotions, the more expansive they become—not crowded, but enriched and deepened. Those who abstain from reading deny themselves not just the knowledge and entertainment books hold but also the chance to expand their cognitive and emotional capacities.

As I continue to navigate a world populated with both types of individuals—those open to the endless possibilities of thought and those closed off—I strive to advocate for the value of reading. Not just as a source of information, but as a vital exercise in building bridges between minds. My hope is that more people will discover the joy and value of reading, not only for their enrichment but for the greater empathy and understanding it fosters within our communities.

Thus, my journey, much like that of young Nils, remains an inward as much as an outward adventure—an endless exploration where the more I discover, the more I realize how crucial it is to encourage others to open the books, open their minds, and by doing so, open


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Jim McCrory

The Humans I have Trouble Relating to

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Sunday, 12 Jan 2025, 13:24



 "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people."

Eleanor Roosevelt


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In The Wonderful Adventures of Nils by Selma Lagerlöf that I read well... way back in 1995, a compelling idea is presented: “The more things that come into your head, the more room there is for others.” 

This suggests that our minds grow with every new thought and idea we encounter, especially through reading. Reflecting on this, I recognize a pattern in my own life: the most challenging relationships I've had were often with people who do not read regularly.

My experiences have taught me that reading does more than fill our heads with information; it expands our ability to think and feel. Those who read often seem to understand others better and communicate more effectively. Their thoughts are like branches that reach out, connecting ideas and emotions in complex ways.

Conversely, I’ve noticed that people I've had the most difficulty relating to, don't read much tend to have a harder time dealing with complex ideas or understanding different viewpoints. But that's entirely my experience. Their conversations might lack depth, and sometimes, it seems the ones I have known  struggle to empathize with others. Empathy, after all, is something that reading nurtures quite well. Books put us into the shoes of characters across different worlds and times, teaching us to understand and share the feelings of others.

It’s as if not reading limits their mental landscape—like a garden that’s never been fully cultivated. This can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts because it's harder for them to see beyond their immediate perspective.

Considering all this, I’ve come to see reading as essential—not just for knowledge, but for developing the skills to think deeply and empathize widely. Each book adds new layers to our understanding, helping us become better listeners and more thoughtful speakers.

As I continue to meet people who read and those who don't, I advocate more and more for reading's vital role in personal growth. I hope more people will pick up a book, not just to learn something new, but to better understand the world and the people around them. This way, we might all become like those expansive minds in Lagerlöf's tale, forever growing and making more room for others.


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