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"I cried because I had no shoes..."

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Saturday, 19 July 2025, 16:46

"I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet."

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We all know them. The people who spend their lives complaining and speaking negatively about almost everything and everyone. I was reading some reviews about how people are disappointed with the new packaging a supermarket is using for their minced beef. Quite honestly, I like the new package, it saves space and cuts back in plastic.

In an age marked by instant gratification and endless opportunities for critique, it has become all too common to encounter voices steeped in dissatisfaction and complaint.

This scenario is a microcosm of a larger cultural tendency to scrutinize and lament, often overlooking the broader implications or the positive intentions behind such changes.

However, this fixation on the negative aspects of trivial changes pales in comparison to the profound struggles faced by those in dire circumstances. Consider the plight of migrants who brave perilous journeys across treacherous seas to reach Britain. Their actions are a stark testament to the allure of the safety, stability, and opportunities that so many of us take for granted. These individuals risk everything in hope of a better life, driven by the very advantages that natives often overlook.

Britain offers numerous fundamental benefits that warrant genuine appreciation. The National Health Service (NHS) provides comprehensive medical care at no direct cost to the individual—a remarkable advantage that is all but a dream in many parts of the world. Access to emergency services and general practitioners ensures that medical needs, both urgent and routine, are met promptly and effectively. Furthermore, the establishment of a living wage aims to afford all workers a standard of living that can support their well-being—a policy not universally adopted globally.

In light of these privileges, it becomes imperative to cultivate a mindset of gratitude. Reflecting on our advantages not only fosters a positive perspective but also enhances our overall well-being. Psychological research consistently shows that gratitude is strongly correlated with greater happiness. By acknowledging the good in our lives, we not only appreciate what we have but also mitigate the corrosive effects of envy and resentment.

 "Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you."— Lao Tzu

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