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“Were not our hearts burning within us as He spoke with us...?

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Saturday 19 July 2025 at 13:51

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This past weekend, I found myself weaving through the vibrant tapestry of London’s bustling streets. Some carry with them a preconceived notion, whispered and widely accepted: that Londoners are a reserved bunch, particularly on the labyrinthine threads of public transport. Yet, my experience painted a different picture—a canvas filled with unexpected strokes of friendliness and openness.

It’s curious how a simple “hello” can thaw the frostiest of demeanours. Indeed, some individuals were tough shells to crack, a phenomenon not unique to this city but common wherever humans gather. The initial hesitation seemed rooted in issues of trust and security, but genuine interest and respect quickly bridged that gap, leading to warm exchanges and smiles that softened the sternest of faces.

I had been reading a companion of sorts—Edward Hirsch’s How to Read a Poem and Fall in Love with Poetry. This isn’t your average introduction to verse. Hirsch dives deep, guiding the reader through the layers and rhythms of poetry.

One segment that particularly resonated with me was his exploration of Walt Whitman’s “To You.” In it, Whitman extends an invitation to the reader, a call to engage in the simplest yet most profound act of connection: conversation.

       “Stranger, if you are passing, meet me and desire to speak to me,
       Why should you not speak to me?
       And why should I not speak to you?”

Reflecting on these experiences, I am reminded of the essential truth that we often meet each other at our best when we are open to the world and to new interactions. As travellers and as humans, when we are removed from the everyday stresses and immersed in the joy of discovery, we find it easier to revel in the beauty each person has to offer.

Through the simple yet profound act of speaking to a stranger, I rediscovered the enduring power of human connection—a theme as timeless as any poem and as beautiful as any landscape. Whether in the heart of a bustling city or the tranquillity of the Highlands, it seems we are all just waiting for someone to extend a hand, open a dialogue, and connect. In doing so, we weave ourselves into a larger human story, one conversation at a time.

Interestingly, one of the most fascinating conversations took place 2000 years ago and someone recorded it:

Luke 24:13-35 NIV - On the Road to Emmaus - Now that same - Bible Gateway

 

 

 

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Jim McCrory

Watch the Door of My Lips

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Edited by Jim McCrory, Thursday 24 July 2025 at 12:39

 

“Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, 

weak minds discuss people. ― Socrates

 

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"Gaining others' trust marks a level of maturity that earns respect, self-respect, and dignity."

 

Many years ago, I was in East Germany. I found that when I asked people questions, they were reluctant to answer. Someone told me it is because as a former communist country, they never trusted anyone. I'm sure it has all changed now.

If your mate, closest companion, pastor or relative was asked to give you marks out of ten regarding the quality of trust, what would they give you; ten being the highest? Ask someone who is not given to flattery and who is trustworthy by reputation. Would you be disappointed? It is a valuable wake-up call that should be treasured and taken seriously. “Watch the door of my lips” the wise man prays in Psalm 141.

Of all the words for “betrayal” in the world’s languages, the Japanese Uraguri (裏切り literally “cutting from behind", are the most expressive.  

There are always ones out there who will cut you from behind: the workplace, family and false friends and even those who claim a religious affiliation but prove false to its power. I believe the pain comes from the injustice of not being present to defend oneself. The hurt also arises when you trust someone enough to reveal some feelings and find out later that they have spread your confidential information and embellished the story. We shouldn’t have to say “please do not tell anyone” to consider it confidential. Privacy goes without saying. There are people in my past that have never come to know me and that’s because I am cautious and never open up to them because they have proved untrustworthy. It’s a pity. I believe we are on this earth to love our neighbour and betrayal is a violation of that principle of being human.

The Psalmist in Psalm 41 had much to say in this regard.

"My enemies say with malice:

“When will he die and be forgotten?”

My visitor speaks falsehood;

he gathers slander in his heart;

he goes out and spreads it abroad.

All who hate me whisper against me"

Psalm 41: 5-8 (BSB).

 

Consider this, the person who gains the trust of others has crossed over to a level of maturity that gains the respect of others, and by extension, gains considerable self-respect and dignity.

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