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To be blinded by the love of one's own idea - continuation.

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Edited by Witold Wisniewski, Thursday 14 November 2024 at 21:00

Hey everyone!

I got some feedback on my last article, and it turns out folks felt I didn’t explain the psychological stuff clearly enough. So, someone suggested I try visualizing it. Challenge accepted!

Check out this quick 5-minute video where I dive into how our brains can totally trick us and make us miss out on valuable feedback. I also talk about the entrepreneurs' challenges that come with this and share some strategies to tackle it.

Give it a watch: Don't fall in love with your own idea - video.

I will really appreciate your feedback - so feel free to write a comment below or drop me a message.

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Witold Wisniewski

Your idea is not you!

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Edited by Witold Wisniewski, Tuesday 1 October 2024 at 14:11

Taking critique can often be a challenging experience for many individuals, particularly when it involves personal ideas. Have you ever observed something like that? Such a person is literally feedback-proof and can  treat every comment even with hostility!

Here is the bad news: under specific circumstances, any of us can face this problem. This phenomenon occurs when a person's brain begins to treat their ideas as integral parts of their self-concept. When this happens, any critique directed at these ideas can be perceived as an attack on the self, leading to defensiveness or outright rejection of the feedback.

How to avoid such a disaster? I explore the way how our brain can merge ideas and identity and to avoid it in detail in the article: Don't fall in love with your idea

The consequences of this can be severe. For instance, consider a startup owner who is in the process of finding and testing a new business model. If they view their concept as an extension of their identity, they may become impervious to valuable critiques that could enhance their business strategy. This inability to accept feedback can be detrimental, potentially leading to a failure to adapt or pivot when necessary, which is crucial for any company's survival.

Let me know in the comment what do you think about this issue!

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