So, when should an on-line relationship be considered as flirting or, more seriously, a threat to ones main off-line (physical) relationship, assuming that there is a physical partner? We tend to portray ourselves in the 'best possible' way when on-line and there is no warts an' all as no one can see us. For love to blossom, we also tend to want the person of our dreams to see us in the 'best possible' way...
As there is a Strong desire to be loved, or at least wanted, should there be a limit as to how we go about getting others to desire or want us? When we meet on a date we like to dress-up in order to impress, this dies off after a while (yes alright, no science here) and there is likely to be an on-line equivalent, I suspect. Would you, yes you, want to 'chat' with someone that can’t spell, or type correct sentences, or make any sense to anyone else (erm, that's me again)? To behave well on-line can take just as much effort and restraint as a physical relationship can.
As I'm not 'fishing' for anyone, just practicing getting my thoughts together, it does not matter (to me) how well I do it, or does it? I will also say the same about me when going out - to the shops for example - why bother dressing up, just in case? I do though want to type and spell proper and make sense - I told you, I'm practicing!
A good number of relationships that started off innocently(?) whilst on-line have subsequently blossomed into something 'physically' good, but, I wonder, at the expense of whom or what? It is not always negative, as others may testify, and for me, I prefer a bit of this to ‘fishing’ for a .n. other - once bitten etc…
“Hi there, you ok? I was hoping to catch you - have you got time for a chat? You know that Pizza Parlour in the High Street, next to the Crown and Sceptre, well, it’s got new management, and there’s an offer of £10 discount for the first 100 people that book a dinner for two - are you up for it? My partner is on business at the mo, and I’m going to be bored tomorrow and Saturday. We always seem to get along Soo well when expressing our thoughts to one another… ” And so on, ‘till next time?